Last weekend I was invited over to someone’s house for her kid’s first birthday. So a few of us get together, buy a pack of pampers and baby wipes and head to her place.
We get there and everyone is all stiff and formal as we are welcomed to the home and the hosts fuss over you.
“Kwanini unatoa viatu? Usitoe, ata hatujaosha!”
“Apana, nimezoea hivyo tu.”
A peek into the living room reveals elsewise; a shiny wooden floor which clearly has been recently polished and a thick woollen carpet that adorns the centre of the room. Do not take chances with this, it’s a trap! Take off your dusty shoes, pray that your socks have no gaping holes or worse, a pungent smell. So I take my advice and leave my shoes outside; everyone follows suit.
Inside we sit on these comfy sofas that adjust to your shape and weight, not those hard unyielding excuses for a sofa. Nice touch. As it always is with guests we start out sitting on the edge of our seats and looking around, silently profiling the house.
Family photos collection, close knit unit. Snow globe, we have been to places. Big airy house with creepers covering the walls, money, old money; lots of old money.
“Mutakunywa juice?”
Why do they always ask that? Of course the guests always have some, we did come to party, didn’t we?
The drinks come. Del Monte, several packs. Yippee!
The kids come along, someone finds the remote and we take over, flipping through the channels and playing with the kids.
We enter stage 2; relaxed and well acquainted. Leaning back in the seats and putting our feet up, walking around the living room and draining the Del Monte a little too fast.
Now I have a rule when it comes to visiting, I never use the toilet unless I really have to and if it’s number 2 hell no unless there’s an outside latrine. But this time something was different. My stomach was making several distress calls that I ignored. Not to be stumped, it started threatening with ‘mass movements’. I had to give in.
I don’t know about you but I hate asking for directions to the toilet. It’s almost like telling everyone precisely what you want to do and how you intend to do it. My stomach however was not taking any of this. A low growl coerced me into action.
“State house iko wapi?”
A puzzled look was all I got. Why don’t women get these codes!!!
“Ahem, loo…” my voice trailed off.
“Oooh! Toilet! Enda hivyo alafu left!” she announced to the world.
Great, now everyone knows where I’m going.
I get there. I like it. White wall tiles, blue toilet water and lavender air freshener. The back of the door has one of those inspirational posters. You know the kind that has two cute Caucasian kids in bright hats urging you to never give up on your dreams and always follow your heart – that kind.
Done with the deed I look to the toilet roll, nothing there. Not good. I run through my pockets and come up with a crisp Sh. 500 note. Apart from being too crisp there’s no way I’m using it. My handkerchief is in my jacket in the living room. Drat! I look at the poster again. No man, that’s just wrong, they’re still kids.
I’m starting to get desperate. I’ve been gone for more than fifteen minutes. They’ll start wondering what’s taking me so long and then the jokes will come. I needed a solution, fast.
Socks! I had my socks! No one would notice and they are so soft. I reach down and take them off, slowly as if bidding them goodbye.
After the deed, I dump them in the bowl, zip up and pump the flush handle. A hollow clanking sound replied. Oh! Oh! There’s no water!